People-pleasers end up over-committed and stressed out

Lack of reliability drains confidence, strains relationships, and stalls careers. Character is understood in the behaviors others come to expect from you. Unreliable people find reasons to let themselves off the hook. Complexity is enemy to reliability. Keep projects simple and relationships uncomplicated._ Charles:Should I just quit my job?(16 December 2016) Charles:I snapped on them once after [...]
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Jama:
I asked her tonight about a fashion show she went to because she took along the young guy (who had just gotten married) whilst I was at work.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
But I still feel uncomfortable with her going to events to network but taking a male colleague with her.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
But moving forward, we survived all of that.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
Even used to be bored of my company.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
We never went anywhere and she would go out with her friends and work colleagues.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
In the early years of our marriage she would hit me, swear at me and not make much time for me.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
During the five years, I have been concerned about her meeting male clients for dinner for her real estate job and getting too familiar with male colleagues.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
We have been married for five years and we are trying to conceive our first child.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
She us Chinese but speaks fairly good English.
(7 January 2017)

Jama:
I'm having troubles with communication between my wife and I.
(7 January 2017)