But you’re black yourself. And?

Why does being black myself mean I HAVE to be attracted to my own race of males physically? Why does it mean I have to date and be into them because I’m black myself? Why does that absence mean co_ Mamie:I just don’t want him to spring it on me one day that he wants more [...]
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Lavern:
All I really want to do is have my labia cut evenly and a bit short because it covers everything else and it is actually really uncomfortable when sitting.
(27 October 2017)

Lavern:
Thankfully he's not a sex first guy, but I know it will happen eventually.
(27 October 2017)

Lavern:
So far 2 this year for that reason, and i'm scared in my current relationship.
(27 October 2017)

Lavern:
I keep turning guys away the moment they see me there.
(27 October 2017)

Nisha:
How to tell if my husband is a lying cheat?
(27 October 2017)

Lucille:
My mom won't let me spend my own money?
(27 October 2017)

Lucille:
Do you think she has a point or should I stand up for myself?
(27 October 2017)

Lucille:
The only thing I don't pay for is rent but we agreed as long as i went to school i woudnt pay rent.
(27 October 2017)

Lucille:
I feel it's unfair for her to say that because I work hard everyday from 1am to 9 am and then go to college which I pay, and I have car insurance which I pay for the car I bought with my own money.
(27 October 2017)

Lucille:
When It came my mom saw it and freaked and told me I wasn't going to put it on my car because it was gonna attract cops and I was gonna waste money on my car and stuff like that.
(27 October 2017)